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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:41:52 -0700

"Learning to let go is not giving up! It is simply passing the burden to a better fighter, so you can fight another day. (God)" -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:41:58 -0700

"If you want peace in your life, you have to stop declaring war." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:44:56 -0700

"If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:45:47 -0700

"You Chose You chose. You chose. You chose. You chose to give away your love. You chose to have a broken heart. You chose to give up. You chose to hang on. You chose to react. You chose to feel insecure. You chose to feel anger. You chose to fight back. You chose to have hope. You chose to be naïve. You chose to ignore your intuition. You chose to ignore advice. You chose to look the other way. You chose to not listen. You chose to be stuck in the past. You chose your perspective. You chose to blame. You chose to be right. You chose your pride. You chose your games. You chose your ego. You chose your paranoia. You chose to compete. You chose your enemies. You chose your consequences. You chose. You chose. You chose. You chose. However, you are not alone. Generations of women in your family have chosen. Women around the world have chosen. We all have chosen at one time in our lives. We stand behind you now screaming: Choose to let go. Choose dignity. Choose to forgive yourself. Choose to forgive others. Choose to see your value. Choose to show the world you’re not a victim. Choose to make us proud." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:46:04 -0700

"Never rearrange your life in order to meet Mr. Darcy half way. If he couldn’t see your worth at the moment you met then he won’t two years later. May the halls of Pemberly be filled with his regrets and your life filled with thankfulness because of this revelation." -- Shannon Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:46:17 -0700

"Before you can live a part of you has to die. You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said differently. You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours. When you finally recognize that truth then you will understand the true meaning of forgiveness of yourself and others. From this point you will finally be free." -- Shannon Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:46:25 -0700

"There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake." -- Shannon Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:46:34 -0700

"Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:46:44 -0700

"I have always found it odd that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you can’t win. It’s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are moving on without them and why, rather than leave a lasting impression of cowardness on your part in a person’s mind by avoiding them." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:47:01 -0700

"Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:49:09 -0700

"The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate its fragility." -- Paulo Coelho

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:50:00 -0700

"A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman's heart." -- Shannon Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:50:21 -0700

"Reputation is what others think of us; character is what God knows of us. When you have spent what feels like eternity trying to repair a few moments of time that destroyed the view others once had of you then you must ask yourself if you have the problem or is it really them? God doesn’t make us try so hard, only enemies do." -- Shannon Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:51:24 -0700

"If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:54:04 -0700

"Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:57:59 -0700

"The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!" -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 07:58:11 -0700

"Never fall in love with someone that won't fight for you because when the real battles begin they won't pull your heart to safety, but they will their own." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 08:00:05 -0700

"When relationships fail it is usually because someone chooses not to show up for the battle." -- Shannon L. Alder

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Thu, 16 Aug 2018 08:01:41 -0700

"Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth." -- Shannon L. Alder