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“Another step is that daughters can learn to monitor their own feelings and instincts by saying, "I feel uncomfortable (angry, dominated, usurped, inadequate, guilty, furious) with my mother more often than I do not. I have to pay attention to that, because it shows in how I treat my friends (lover, spouse, kids, colleagues). There is validity here. I don't have to blame or excuse my mother-I just have to see her so I can see myself.”
― Victoria Secunda, When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life

tags: abuse, childhood, childhood-trauma, emotional-abuse, engulfing-mother, mother-daughter-relationship, narcissistic-parent

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“窶ｦIf getting a man is entirely dependent on the digits showing on your tags, or your scale, then he is certainly not the right one for YOU, not the other way around.”
― Fatima Mohammed, Higher Heels, Bigger Dreams

tags: body-image, marriage, nonfiction, relationships, right-man, self-esteem, self-love, self-worth, verbal-abuse, women

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“Generally, in a verbally abusive relationship the abuser denies the abuse. Verbal abuse most often takes place behind closed doors. Physical abuse is always preceded by verbal abuse.”
― Patricia Evans, Verbally Abusive Relationship

tags: abuse, control, physical-abuse, power-over, verbal-abuse

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“The strangest thing about drowning is how much it burns.”
― Josephine Angelini, Scions

tags: burning, daphne-atreus, drowning, greek-mythology, josephine-angelini, pain, reflective, romance, scions, ya-fantasy

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“If you are told from the time you are one month that you're no good and you're not smart and you can't do it and you don't have an opinion of your own and you pick the wrong friends and you don't study the right way and you don't wear the right clothes and you don't look nice, at some point you're going to start believing it. And if you believe it, you're going to need a mommy to tell you what to do. And that's abuse. Not to let your child grow up to be an independent, respected human being.”
― Victoria Secunda, When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life

tags: abuse, childhood, childhood-trauma, emotional-abuse, engulfing-mother, mother-daughter-relationship, narcissistic-parent

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