She Ain't It: How to Expose Damaged, Desperate, and Deceitful Women and Attract Your Game Changer**" by G. L. Lambert is an eye-opening and empoweringShe Ain't It: How to Expose Damaged, Desperate, and Deceitful Women and Attract Your Game Changer**" by G. L. Lambert is an eye-opening and empowering guide for men navigating the complexities of modern dating. Lambert's no-nonsense approach and candid advice provide invaluable insights into recognizing and avoiding toxic relationships while empowering readers to attract healthier, more fulfilling connections.
One of the standout qualities of this book is Lambert's unapologetic honesty. He delves deep into the behaviors and traits of damaged, desperate, and deceitful women, offering readers practical tools to identify and steer clear of these destructive influences. Lambert's writing is engaging, peppered with humor and real-life examples, making the concepts easy to understand and apply.
Moreover, the book doesn't only focus on pointing out negative traits but also provides a roadmap for attracting positive, high-quality partners 鈥 the 'game changers.' Lambert encourages readers to work on themselves, set boundaries, and cultivate self-respect, ultimately leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
In a world where dating can be a minefield, "She Ain't It" is a beacon of light, guiding men towards authentic connections and away from relationships that drain their energy and self-worth. Whether you're a seasoned dater or new to the game, this book is a must-read that will empower you to make better choices in love and life.
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Quotes from "She Ain't It":
1. "You can't turn a bad woman good, but a good woman can turn a bad man good." 2. "Stop giving girlfriend benefits to women who are only giving you late-night booty calls." 3. "Know your worth so you can stop giving discounts." 4. "A woman who doesn't respect herself will never respect you." 5. "Real queens fix each other's crowns."
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Types of Women to Avoid:
1. **The Drama Queen**: Constantly creates unnecessary drama and turmoil in your life. 2. **The Gold Digger**: Seeks you out for financial gain rather than genuine connection. 3. **The Manipulator**: Uses emotional manipulation to control and influence your decisions. 4. **The Attention Seeker**: Craves constant validation and attention, often at the expense of your needs. 5. **The Commitment-Phobe**: Unable or unwilling to commit to a serious, long-term relationship. 6. **The Narcissist**: Self-centered and lacks empathy, making the relationship one-sided and draining.
By being aware of these types and their associated behaviors, readers of "She Ain't It" can navigate the dating world more clearly and confidently, ultimately leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships....more
"Plays Well with Others" by Eric Barker is a captivating and insightful exploration of the science behind relat"Plays Well with Others" by Eric Barker
"Plays Well with Others" by Eric Barker is a captivating and insightful exploration of the science behind relationships, challenging common assumptions and offering a fresh perspective on how we interact with others. Barker delves into the complexities of human relationships, drawing on research from various fields to shed light on why our conventional wisdom about relationships may be flawed.
One of the book's strengths is Barker's engaging writing style, which makes complex scientific concepts accessible and relatable to a broad audience. Through storytelling, research findings, and practical advice, he provides readers valuable insights into navigating relationships more effectively.
Barker's exploration of communication, trust, conflict resolution, and emotional intelligence is informative and thought-provoking. By challenging readers to rethink their relationship beliefs, he encourages them to adopt new strategies for building stronger connections with others.
Overall, "Plays Well with Others" is a must-read for anyone interested in deepening their understanding of human relationships and improving the quality of their interactions with others. Eric Barker's blend of science, storytelling, and practical wisdom makes this book a valuable resource for personal growth and development.
### Quotes from "Plays Well with Others":
1. "It's not about finding the perfect partner but becoming the right one."
2. "Conflict isn't necessarily a bad thing in a relationship; it's how we handle it that matters."
3. "Listening is not waiting for your turn to speak; it's about understanding the other person's perspective."
4. "Trust is the currency of relationships; without it, the connection crumbles."
5. "Emotional intelligence is the key to successful relationships; it's not just about what you say, but how you say it."
6. "Vulnerability is not a weakness; it's a strength that deepens our connections with others."
7. "Understanding the needs of others is essential for building strong and lasting relationships."
These quotes from "Plays Well with Others" encapsulate the book's central themes and offer valuable insights into the dynamics of human relationships....more
"A Rainbow in the Night: The Tumultuous Birth of South Africa" by Dominique Lapierre is a captivating and poignant account of the turbulent history of"A Rainbow in the Night: The Tumultuous Birth of South Africa" by Dominique Lapierre is a captivating and poignant account of the turbulent history of South Africa, especially during the era of apartheid. Lapierre skillfully weaves together historical facts, personal stories, and political insights to create a compelling narrative that sheds light on the immense challenges faced by the people of South Africa during this dark period.
Key Historical Events:
1. The establishment of apartheid policies in South Africa, which institutionalized racial segregation and discrimination.
2. The Sharpeville Massacre in 1960, where peaceful protestors were shot by police, leading to international condemnation.
3. The Rivonia Trial in 1963-1964, where Nelson Mandela and other anti-apartheid activists were sentenced to life in prison.
4. The Soweto Uprising in 1976 was a pivotal moment in the struggle against apartheid, led by black students protesting against using Afrikaans in schools.
5. The release of Nelson Mandela from prison in 1990 marked the beginning of the end of apartheid.
Racist Ideas: Throughout the book, Lapierre explores the profoundly ingrained racist ideas that underpin the apartheid system in South Africa. These included:
1. Beliefs in the superiority of the white race and the inferiority of black South Africans.
2. Justifications for segregation based on racial stereotypes and prejudices.
3. Systematic discrimination against non-white populations in all aspects of life, including education, employment, and social opportunities.
Overall, "A Rainbow in the Night: The Tumultuous Birth of South Africa" is a powerful and thought-provoking book that delves into the complexities of South Africa's history, highlighting the struggles against racism and oppression. Lapierre's storytelling prowess and deep research make this book a must-read for anyone interested in understanding the challenges faced by the people of South Africa in their quest for freedom and equality....more
Jill Watts' "The Black Cabinet" is a captivating and enlightening exploration of a pivotal yet often overlooked chapter in American history. Through mJill Watts' "The Black Cabinet" is a captivating and enlightening exploration of a pivotal yet often overlooked chapter in American history. Through meticulous research and compelling storytelling, Watts sheds light on the untold story of African Americans and their significant role in politics during the era of President Franklin D. Roosevelt.
One of the most striking aspects of this book is the way Watts brings to life the names and stories of black politicians who played instrumental roles in shaping historical events. From figures like Mary McLeod Bethune and Robert C. Weaver to William H. Hastie and Ralph Bunche, these trailblazing individuals come alive on the pages, their struggles, triumphs, and contributions to the political landscape vividly portrayed.
Watts skillfully weaves together narratives of resilience, determination, and political acumen, showing how the Black Cabinet worked tirelessly behind the scenes to advance civil rights, economic justice, and equality for African Americans during a tumultuous period in American history. Through their advocacy and strategic engagement with the Roosevelt administration, these unsung heroes made significant strides in challenging systemic racism and paving the way for future generations of black leaders.
"The Black Cabinet" is not just a history book; it is a testament to the power of activism, collaboration, and perseverance in the face of adversity. By bringing to light this hidden history, Watts invites readers to reconsider and appreciate the contributions of African Americans to the political landscape of the 20th century.
In conclusion, Jill Watts' "The Black Cabinet" is a must-read for anyone interested in American history, civil rights, and the enduring legacy of African American political leadership. With meticulous research, engaging storytelling, and a deep respect for its subjects, this book shines a light on a crucial chapter in our nation's past. It offers valuable insights into the present and future....more
Hell Divers VII is a good book but for me, it was kind of flat. It鈥檚 the seventh book of the series and it just seems like it鈥檚 becoming repetitive. IHell Divers VII is a good book but for me, it was kind of flat. It鈥檚 the seventh book of the series and it just seems like it鈥檚 becoming repetitive. It has the same characters and it has the same enemies and the battles are reenacted over and over.
Nicholas Smith is one of the best authors around and is one of my favorites. I have read almost all of his books and enjoy them all. This series though needs to be replaced by a new storyline. I am now reading his newest book and I know that with his writing skills it will be good....more
"Suns" is a groundbreaking anthology that combines a stunning collection of original speculative fiction stories written by talented authors of color."Suns" is a groundbreaking anthology that combines a stunning collection of original speculative fiction stories written by talented authors of color. This book is a true gem that showcases the diverse voices and rich storytelling traditions within the speculative fiction genre.
Each story in "Suns" is a unique and imaginative journey that transports the reader to familiar and otherworldly worlds. From futuristic societies to magical realms, the stories in this anthology explore a wide range of themes, including identity, culture, power, and the human experience. The authors skillfully weave together elements of science fiction, fantasy, and horror to create captivating and thought-provoking narratives that will stay with you long after you finish reading.
What sets "Suns" apart is not only the quality of the writing but also the range of perspectives and experiences represented in the stories. The authors in this anthology offer fresh and innovative takes on the speculative fiction genre, challenging traditional narratives and pushing boundaries in exciting ways. Readers will find themselves immersed in worlds that are both familiar and fantastical, confronting complex issues and exploring new possibilities through the lens of diverse voices.
"Suns" is a must-read for speculative fiction fans and anyone looking for captivating stories that reflect the richness and diversity of human experience. This anthology is a testament to the power of storytelling and the importance of amplifying marginalized voices in literature. It is a celebration of creativity, imagination, and the endless possibilities of speculative fiction.
In conclusion, "Suns" is a remarkable collection that deserves a place on the bookshelf of every speculative fiction enthusiast. It is a testament to the talent and creativity of authors of color and a shining example of the transformative power of diverse storytelling. I highly recommend this anthology to anyone seeking original and engaging speculative fiction that challenges conventions and expands the boundaries of the genre....more
Are Brian Herbert & Kevin Anderson half as good at writing 'Dune' books as Papa Frank? No. Are there far too many Deus ex Machina moments in the plot,Are Brian Herbert & Kevin Anderson half as good at writing 'Dune' books as Papa Frank? No. Are there far too many Deus ex Machina moments in the plot, for the rest of the writing to survive unscathed? Yes. Finishing off the storyline, no matter how much original draft material they had discovered, was always going to be a thankless task. They tried. They really tried. I think they truly loved and respected the original books. But this is merely okay, nothing more. But too much ammo was fired at the target. Some of it was due to the regurgitated characters from the original book, who mainly performed one significant plot function before becoming background noise again. Of the rest, there were protagonists and situations inspired, possibly, by Gregory Benford's 'Galactic Centre' books and/or the Matrix films (the disappointing sequels, mainly). I'm actually glad someone had a crack at the job of finishing this long long saga, but the very existence of this particular Vol.7 & Vol.8 does make it unlikely that another (and quite possibly better) attempt will ever be written....more
So often readers are disappointed with the sequel that follows a brilliant book they've read... And I'm delighted to say I felt absolutely none of thaSo often readers are disappointed with the sequel that follows a brilliant book they've read... And I'm delighted to say I felt absolutely none of that disappointment whilst reading The Trials of Koli. Introducing another PoV could have been risky, but it really paid off in this book. Both Koli's journey and that of the second primary character were utterly compelling, and I enjoyed them equally. The other characters within the story are also diverse, relatable, and engaging. The plot is well constructed and the prose is cleverly original. Read, read, read. Start with The Book of Koli first, though!...more
Not the parasitic body horror Tor promised, nor even science fiction, but an interesting folktale about fear of female power and understanding where yNot the parasitic body horror Tor promised, nor even science fiction, but an interesting folktale about fear of female power and understanding where you are coming from in order to know where you are going. Rich in symbolism, the story of Fatima who becomes Sankofa is moving in how it relates to an orphaned girl burdened with a terrible purpose. I loved the premise for this story and the setting, but I found the writing kept me at a distance from the characters for most of the tale until the very end....more
EJD really poured his heart into this book. It includes everything that a reader would want, drama, cultural references, slang, and realistic attributEJD really poured his heart into this book. It includes everything that a reader would want, drama, cultural references, slang, and realistic attributes. The book took me longer than I anticipated to finish but around the 40% mark I was hooked. I loved Pi鈥檚 character and the storyline surrounding his life. He endured some of the many things that we see in America: a successful African American man trying to make a way. While he was successful, there were so many hardships thrown his way. Very good book, a little longer than I would have liked but I enjoyed it....more
This book is the work of brilliance! Each essay has its unique voice and style, the stories are captivating and telling, and the poetry every 40 yearsThis book is the work of brilliance! Each essay has its unique voice and style, the stories are captivating and telling, and the poetry every 40 years ties the time period together masterfully. This collection reveals our racial history through human eyes and obscure but important events. Not only does it give voice to its authors today, it gives voice to the many many people through the years. Thank you for this work of brilliance! I highly recommend it....more
I really enjoyed Annaka Harris' book on consciousness, especially the section on panpsychism, which provides one of the clearest expositions of what pI really enjoyed Annaka Harris' book on consciousness, especially the section on panpsychism, which provides one of the clearest expositions of what panpsychism actually is. The writing is very clear, engaging, and conversational, making the subject very lucid--I wish my own consciousness was like this for only five minutes a day.
With that said, one major branch of research into consciousness is missing, omitting some 2,000 years of scientific exploration of the mind, conducted and elucidated by practitioners all over the world, but mainly in Asia (namely, India). Harris does allude to he practice of meditation a few times and also cites her friend, the renowned meditation teacher Joseph Goldstein, on one occasion, but overall the pivotal role of introspection and meditative practice to get at the properties of consciousness from a first-person perspective isn't much mentioned, let alone championed, at all.
Given Harris' own practice and that her husband, Sam Harris, wrote a whole book about meditative practice as a way to see reality (and consciousness) more clearly, this seems rather odd. A section under the theme of "consciousness in philosophy and religion" would have made less of a glaring omission. One can only guess that Harris or her publisher were overly cautious in trying to avoid the whiff of New Age or kookery...more
If you're like me and have read just about all of Octavia Butler's books, you'll enjoy this one. Shori is a typical Butler protagonist - black, strongIf you're like me and have read just about all of Octavia Butler's books, you'll enjoy this one. Shori is a typical Butler protagonist - black, strong, and a leader. Her amnesia gives an interesting twist to the story as she has to find herself and understand that she is not like the other Ina (Butler's species of vampires). Her brown skin is in constrast with the pale complexed vampire races, and not all Ina are enlightened about racial equality.
I like this novel because it presents an interesting twist on the traditional vampire myth. The Ina society is intriguing, and how they relate to their "symbionts" makes for a fascinating delving into human relations.
What I don't like is that I feel this book stops short of its full potential. The ending seems a little abrupt, though it fits with this type of storytelling. The idea of a girl that is physically 10-11 having a relationship with an adult is troubling, though it adds to the shock value of the story. I get the feeling that there could be a possible follow up novel in the future.
Butler doesn't write enough novels these days. Don't pass this one up....more
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